‘Your wife is not your family’: Nigerian man sets Twitter on fire
Mia Phillips
Updated on April 07, 2026
A Nigerian man has taken to Twitter to share a polarizing opinion on marriage – he claims that married men should not regard their wives as family members.
According to him, the only women a man should regard as members of his family are his mother, sister, and daughter. He further stated that those are the only females that should matter in a man’s life.
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His view elicited lots of comments from many who opposed his view and pointed out the importance of marriage and family.
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In his words,
“When I say your wife is not your family they think I’m being funny but the fact remains that your wife is not your family. The only female that can ride for you is your mom, sister and daughter and these are the only female that should matter.”
See the tweet below:
See reactions below:@Solomon_Buchi: “But your mom is someone’s wife. Your sister will be someone’s wife, and your daughter will be someone’s wife. Is it a wife issue or a trust issue? I don’t know why you sound this hurt, but please, your wife is your family.”@ChinonsoIsaiah2: “And dat ur daughter fell from a tree?…jeezzzzz Shaa, both mother, daughter and sis are all women, u dnt accept ur wife as family, ur sister and daughter will definitely meet the same fate”@TheJohnOlonade: “I hope no one is married to a man like this. E get wetin God see wey make him talk say “A man shall leave his father and mother and CLEAVE to his wife.”@SoloJah1: “I believe what you’re trying to say is that “amongst your family, always remember your wife is the only person not related to you by blood”@udocheeeee: “Go and sleep with your sister then or your mom..so they will bear your kids onye ara”@EvePillowtalk: “Your wife can never be your family, you’re connected to your wife through feeling but connected to your mom, sisters and daughters through blood.”@wunidaniels: “You’re being funny actually. How is your wife, the one you recreate with isn’t your family? How did your mom become a mom? She wasn’t a wife? This take isn’t anywhere close to this conversation”@Messi_x_Eminem: “How does it work please? Your dad is your family right? But your mum is NOT your dad’s family also? But your mum is your family? Please explain cause I don’t understand”@AdaAnambraa: “This right here is heart wrenching,you take a Lady away from her immediate family to join you as a family,but now still say she is not a family member yet you have your children with your blood from her????, You now forget that your father can equally call your mum a stranger too”