‘You might not even marry him’ – Mother’s message to her son’s girlfriend trends online
Matthew Sanders
Updated on April 07, 2026
A screenshot of a WhatsApp conversation between a lady and her boyfriend’s mother has recently surfaced online, where the older woman told her to “stop trying too hard”, and many netizens had things to say.
It was Mother’s Day on Sunday, March 19, and the lady thanked her lover’s mum on WhatsApp for giving birth to the young man whom she described as “lovely”.
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In her message, the lady stated that if she had been nearby, she would have stopped by to spend time with the mother and most likely made her a special meal.
Her boyfriend’s mother, on the other hand, was not having it; she warned the lady that she was not yet her daughter-in-law and that she should not claim her son.
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She chastised the lady, asking her to go and take care of her own mother first and advised the young lady not to push her luck, as her son might not end up marrying her.
See the conversation below:
The post sparked massive reactions, with commenters flocking to the social media platform to share their thoughts.
The following are some reactions:
@Utibe Michael: “The woman is saying the truth o, omo know your limit o😂”.
@Emmanuella Akpan: “Na this kind mother in-law we dey show pepper when we finally enter”
@Peace Isuaiko: “If your mother knows me and either of us don’t have that natural likeness for each other I no go even date you, so this path of massage no go even come in”
@Queen Nnaemeka Julietmaria: “I love this woman. Why overdo when you have your mother. So who will spend time with your own mom?.It depends on how you read her response but it was a good correction she made there, ‘You are not my daughter-in-law yet’.”
@Chidera Onyenekes: “I can’t marry in that family sha”.
@Commy Oliver: “Jesus 😳😳🤧🥺 God ooo 🙀 Ewoooo 😳🤧😭😭 Mummy ooo😤”.
@Ify Francis: “If you fall in love and have to marry a man who is obsessed with his mother (which I forbid for you), do well to rub your daddy too in his face. If you don’t have a dad let him know you are a dedicated idol worshipper with your mummy.”