Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco: A Complete Relationship Timeline

November 2023: Selena Gomez fan accounts begin speculating that the multihyphenate is dating record producer Benny Blanco.

Gomez comments, “Finally,” after Blanco shares on Instagram that he is releasing his cookbook, Open Wide: A Cookbook for Friends, with Jess Damuck. She also shares the post to her own Instagram Stories, writing, “One of my favs is releasing a cookbook.”

Fans also notice that her mom, Mandy Teefey, follows Blanco on Instagram. The pair have also “liked” a significant number of each other's posts over the past few months.

Fall 2023: Benny Blanco shares a handwritten note that his “gf” left on his pillow to his Instagram Stories. A woman can be seen sleeping in the background, out of focus, in the photo of the note, which reads, “I am so bloated please do not squeeze/hold onto my waist tonight or I'll fart a hole through the sheets. Love you.” Gomez's fans believe both the humor and the candor of the note align with her self-deprecating style. It is unclear if Gomez is the woman in the background of the photo.

August 2023: Selena Gomez releases “Single Soon,” which was produced by Benny Blanco.

July 2023: Benny Blanco attends Selena Gomez's 31st birthday. She later shares a photo to her Instagram in which the two are standing close to each other, as she reaches back to hold him. She also wraps an arm around Paris Hilton in the photo.

June 2023: Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco begin dating, according to a comment in December 2023 stating that they had been together for six months.

October 26, 2020: Benny Blanco promotes his collaboration with Justin Bieber, “Lonely,” on the Zach Sang Show. During his interview Blanco says, “Justin is not one of those, like, cookie-cutter pop artists; you know they’re, like, ‘This is my new single and here’s my makeup line.'”