Oral Sex Tips: How to Get Him to Go Down on You

Your guy has seen one too many porno flicks, and he thinks the best way to please you is to go all out on your most sensitive parts. Or, he keeps switching the techniques with the speed of a NASCAR pit team. First he's up top, then he's down low, and just when something starts to feel good? Boom! He's off to the next move.

Solution: Be vocal. Be kind, but let him know you'd prefer that he take it a little bit slower, exercise more care, and/or stick to a move you love instead of switching it up a lot. When he hits the right spot at the right speed, speak up! A well-timed "Oh, yeah—don't stop" is extremely effective.