‘My child comes first’: Woman cancels engagement after fiancé told her to avoid baby daddy

A woman recently took to social media to announce that she called off her engagement after her fiance told her to stay away from her the father of her child.

She made this announcement with a screenshot of her response to her fiance explaining why she could not grant his request. According to her, she will not compromise the relationship her daughter has with her father just to please her fiance. She noted that it is not fair to detach from the father of her child as the breakup was between her and her baby daddy.

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While commending him for being like a father to their daughter, she emphasized that she would not break the bond between them. She also made reference to some women who would neglect their kids to make their new partners happy.

In her words,

“Few days ago i called off my Engagement…wuuueh,nyota yangu ni kama pastor Ezekiel ameenda nayo jela🤣…My Fiancé was good,he loves me,has no problem with Taking care of me and my daughter Fully but there are things I can never compromise no matter how good you are to me…And one of them Is the relationship My daughter has with Her Father.. That has always been my rule..I broke up with my B.daddy but he didn’t Break up with his child,.the bond my daughter has with her dad is something i can never compromise just to make the man im dating feel nice💀..”

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“My Child is loved,my daughter is well taken care of,my little Girl has a Father,a very responsible father and I cannot Break the bond they have just to get married or to fit your needs…I also understand,many men date bitter single mom’s who are willing to even change their children identity to that of the new man they are dating/married to..many S.Moms even change their sim cards ..in worst cases,other even neglect their kids to make their lovers happy… “Napenda mtoto wako vile nakupenda”is a narrative I barely buy…My Child is to be respected,she’s already Loved. So denying my child her Fathers love just to make you happy can never be me!.”

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