Any marriage that is not shaky is not marriage – Actress Mary Njoku

Popular Nollywood actress, Mary-Remmy Njoku, has recently come forward with some hidden and inside information about the nature of marriages.

The actress who has been married to Jason Njoku, the founder of IROKOtv for ten years, said marriage comes with responsibilities and headaches and is never going to be rosy all the time.

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However, she added that the key to maintaining it is for the couples to always remind themselves that they are in love and are in the marriage together, for better or worse.

She also joked that any marriage without issues is not a real marriage.

In her words;

10 years in marriage no be beans and if I tell you it’s been Rosy, I’d be lying.

I got a message from my friend saying I need to start making noise, that people need to know about my marriage and I am like when I think of the journey I realize it’s not been easy. I’m too tired to make noise.

I have also realized that most of the people who “make noise” in their marriage, those who always come on social media to say “I love him, the love is too sweet” etc. I don’t know how you guys do it but this my own that seems perfect isn’t, we just love each other and we have to remind ourselves that we are together in the marriage.

Sometimes I come online to post some things and people will say “e be like say her marriage dey shake”

Marriage dey always shake from Day 1, any marriage that is not shaky, no be marriage be that.

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Also on the issue of family, this one here might sound a little weird, but Paulin and Dorica Ziarirwa were siblings for many years until they decided to end that relationship to begin another as husband and wife.

The couple has been married for 10 years and has four kids.

Paulin in a chat with Afrimax English, “We believe it is one of the best decisions we have ever made.”